Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Guest Post...Max

It was suggested that writing this guest blog would help us get closer. But, I don't really like to talk about myself. I like when people talk about me, but I don't like to talk about myself. That is, I like it when people pay attention to me, but I want it to seem like I didnt bring it on myself. Does that make sense? Maybe not, but that is how I am.

You guys know me as Darling Friend, or Max or DF...I think that's about it. A lot of names. I just recently had to move away from Micaela, it is not easy doing long distance relationships. I have never blogged before, but there is a lot about being with Micaela that I have never done before or takes me out of my comfort zone. So here goes...guest blogging.

I am in my 30s. I have been gaining weight this year and the wrinkle lines are getting more noticiable. Aging is part of life, but its a part that i dont want to have to deal with...how much is botox? I guess I am vain. I like getting up early. I have trouble sleeping too late. I belive its important to make the best of what you have and enjoy what you have. I never like being too serious at work, I like to make it fun. Why spend hours at a place and be miserable?

When I first meet someone, I try to let them do the talking. It is best to let people slowly warm up to me, I am an acquired taste. My mama says "better to be quiet and thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." I believe Mark Twain said it first, though. When I met Micaela, one of the first things she said to me was "we are going to be best friends!" I thought she was crazy, ha. But she was right. Actually, we were both right, ha ha.

Well, I think if you read this blog you already know a lot of what happened after that.
Moving here a couple weeks ago has been hard, but I thought it was the best option. I am living in my hometown, about 1000 miles away. When I took this job, I thought it was because I was "supposed to" get in some time with my family. Whatever the circumstances that brought me here, I am here. Soon, Micaela will be here as well. This time apart should make us appreciate each other more. I miss her constantly. Hopefully, it will make her appriciate me more and the things I tried to do to take care of her. I can't drop off her car to be fixed from out of state, ha.

This is just my first blog...I plan on dropping in from time to time. Is there anything anyone wants to know about Micaela? Ha, comment on here and I will tell you the real deal.... :)

8 comments:

Krissa said...

Oh I loved this!!! Thanks Max for taking the time to blog... You sound like an amazing guy from reading all about you from Micaela... I would love to know your side of how, or when you fell for Micaela??? {its always interesting to see the guys point of view}

Thanks!

missy. said...

Yay darling friend!! Welcome to the blogging world. You are a VERY lucky guy. Micaela is a beautiful girl. Good luck in VA!

Marisa said...

what a good sport you are...
you got yourself one special girl... but i am guessing you know that already..

ps love the house

Gabby said...

Nice to 'meet' you, Max!

The Socialite said...

Bravo Max on your first post!

Wishing you lots of luck in your new job and in your new home! :)))

Tiffany said...

Oh Chip!! Or Max or DF or whatever you would like for me to call you... when talking to Mickey I say Max cause I know that's what she calls you...but you're Chip to me! Anyways I am rambling.

I hope the job is going wonderfully well and I can't wait for Mickey to move out there so I can come and visit!!

Isn't it strange to think about the little dirty, very dirty, place that we all worked and how it has brought us all in to each others lives? Like you and Mickey...without hell (aka KAUZ) yall would have never met. Now don't get me wrong, I know my wonderful friend is a nutjob (love ya Mickey but it's true), however you had calmed her in so many ways...you have been good for her. I thank you for that. For the love and support you have shown one of my dear friends. I wish both of you the best of luck in your lives together and your love for one another.

Much love always!

Micaela said...

tiffy you are so sweet (and right about me!!! haha!!!! only true friends can say that). You have been there and seen it all... you have cried with me on my faults and the things that broke my heart. You have celebrated and toasted to my blessings and happiness. You have been through it all (through hell- ha! news station) and have always been a friend that never judged or "told" me what to do. I could never thank you enough. I love you!!! and yes, you are visiting ;)

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Lovies, thanks for taking the time to comment on my darling friend's guest post. His post actually cracked me up, because when i read it to my twinkie, she thought it didn't sound like him. lol Max, seriously? the talk of age? haha i'm kidding. i love you for guest blogging and i hope you surprise me more (and soon).

and i DO appreciate you. Just so you know...

love you all.

Ash said...

I like him already. This post was a great idea!

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